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Easter Holidays are upon us | How to enjoy the fabulous weather | Creating outdoor living with ACE

Creating an outdoor living space was our priority this winter/spring – we had put it off long enough. We wanted to take advantage of the great outdoor living weather by adding a comfortable furniture set that was durable with four children and a space to create memories for our family.  We also needed to look for something a bit more sophisticated for entertaining our friends too.  Now that my youngest is three, and gone are the nappy days, I am finding it much easier to entertain again and less concerned about accidents.

We will stay in Dubai during this Easter holidays, and there has to be something said about not packing 6 suitcases and rushing straight for the airport.  As much as we love travelling as a family, I also love staycations in our villa, and with such busy schedules we realise we spend little time in the house.  This holiday will be the perfect way to catch up with home friends and to spend quality time together as a family, and more important to enjoy the unstructured time for the next two weeks.

Staycations at home means a great deal of outdoor time as a family – BBQs and beach days. My husband’s ideal day would be to have his whole family outside in the garden for breakfast and dinner everyday but as the children have grown older their school commitments have increased too.  The holidays are just perfect for lounging in pyjamas having long leisurely breakfasts in the garden before jumping into the pool or sea.

We had outgrown our previous outdoor furniture and it was falling apart because of the harsh summers (it was a quick purchase from Dragon Mart several years back, I confess).  It was time to discard the old and bring in the new. True to my new shopping style I even now buy my garden furniture online. ACE recently launched its online site showcasing a full collection of BBQs, Sheds, outdoor garden furniture, laptops and Dyson products and much more so it was ideal for my husband and me to scroll through looking for furniture sets as the stores displays are much more limited.  We came across a neutral coloured Maui 7-seater Sofa Set with multicolour pillows from ACE online price fairly resonably and if you wait long enough they always have fabulous offers and deals to economise your finances even further. (who doesn’t like a good bargain?)

After the purchase online, ACE was quick to contact us with a delivery, and outdoor set was unpacked by the ACE team and set out.  Honestly, I don’t know why it took us so long to get it organised especially when ACE made it all painless.  To make the furniture design our own, we threw on some outdoor Pottery Barn palm cushions (Seashells On The Palm, of course!).  Then, we had tailors from Satwa make out fabulous fitted outdoor protective covers to increase the durability of the furniture.

I do encourage you to have a scroll on www.aceuae.com and get 10% off your first online order.  They also have 25% – 50% off End of Seasons collection until 15 April 2018.

Top 5 things to do to enjoy the fabulous weather this Easter

#1. Do an Easter Egg hunt in the garden

#2. Visit Park House on Ness Nass Beach

#3. Spend the day at Legoland Water Park to exhaust the children

#4.  Join Privilee and enjoy access to hotel beach clubs, restaurants and spas.  We often frequent, Fairmont the Palm, Waldorf Astoria and Sofitel, the Palm.

#5. Have dinner every evening outdoors with the family.  With recent increase of mosquitos, I also use DoTerra’s essential oil blend of Terra Shield to diffuse outdoors to protect the children.

mrUsta | Need help with endless list of odd jobs around the house like plumbing, AC repair, plumbing, pest control? | One stop shop to post all your requests

Who are mrUstas for?

#Expats who are new in town looking for reputable service providers to do basic work in villas and apartments like carpentry work, cleaning, pest control, AC repair and so forth.

#Busy mums who need an ‘e-Bay’ like forum to post jobs that they need done around the house.

#Anyone who is looking for something to be fixed.

#Anyone who has dealt with inefficient companies in the past who would like to deal with professionals.

Why?

Since coming back from the summer, I have been swarmed in children’s admin, and like every mum in Dubai, September is always an extremely busy month and no matter how much we organise and prepare in advance we still seem to be ‘fire-fighting’ through the day with chores and to-do lists.

However, I had procrastinated enough.  The Pottery Barn shelves needed to be put up and my air-condition units needed a proper clean after the long summer.  The list never ends and this academic year, I have decided to do little but often.  It was great to discover mrUsta, an online services marketplace that allows customers to find quality service providers (‘Ustas’).  It is an online platform, established in 2014,  where I type in any job that needs fixing in the house, and several ‘Ustas’ start bidding for the job. (top tip: do not put your mobile number into the website as they will all start calling you).

The range of services is huge with over 350+ jobs offered by service providers.  The most popular categories include carpentry, painting, plumbing, pest control services, repair, house cleaning, household appliance repair, instant AC Services, Apple iPhone/iPad repair, and you can even look for a short-term live in nanny, order custom made furniture – the list of available services is endless.  You get a rough indication about the price per hour or per month.

Instructions

#Post a job – do not divulge your mobile number.  This can done via their website or you can download their app.

#Wait for several companies to bid for the work, and you can price compare and then contact them via the website to book their services.

#Or you can scroll down and look for the Usta with the best reviews.

#There is a huge choice of 6,000 Ustas that offer 350+ types of services.

mrUsta experience

We posted a job to help us put up our Pottery Barn bookshelves up and a few photos.  The companies (mrUstas) started bidding seconds after the job was posted with different price ranges.  All companies that sign up to the website must provide a copy of their trade licence and are monitored by the the website, and complaints are taken seriously to ensure only reputable companies can bid for work. We selected a company who sent a team of two men who put up the three shelves and a couple of photos.  The men seemed professional and they took care with their work, and were neat and tidy.  I still watch over any workmen in the home for security reasons.  The company hired charged by the hour, and we booked 2-hours.

The second job we posted was to clean our air-condition units in the villa.  Again, similarly many companies bid for jobs and reviewed the prices and reputation.  The Usta was efficient at booking an appointment and clear about their pricing. They charged on the number of air-condition units in the house.  Each filter was removed, washed and cleaned, and again, the job took half a day with two men.

Loyalty program

mrUsta has also launched ‘The Guild, the very first customer loyalty program for a service provider marketplace in the region.  The Guild rewards customers each time they successfully book and close jobs, amounts other actions taken on the platform with mrUsta credit that can be used toward further job postings.

It is free to join mrUsta, and it is the service providers that pay a fee to the online website.  ‘In the first 6-months of 2017 alone, we’ve created over AED17 million worth of opportunities for our Ustas,’ explained Ibrahim Colak, mrUsta’s co-founder and CEO.

Next on the list, need to re-do my wallpaer.  The list is endless so I am grateful that I am able to just post a job through their app or website www.usta.com 

Motherhood | I can’t do it on my own | How I rely on my faith

It has taken me a long time to figure out that I can’t do motherhood on my own.  There are many moments I catch myself doing it on my own strength and that’s when problems start.

I found God around 12 years ago.  It has been a relationship that has grown over time, and I am certainly still not where I want to be or I will probably never get to that point.

Raising 4 children and being a wife who works part-time makes it difficult of me to juggle everything.  I often feel I do a lot of jobs badly.  As the old adage say, jack of all trades but master of none.  It is easy to succumb to the stress of daily life.  All mums face it.  You can worry just about everything.  Am I giving my children enough time? Am I screwing them up?  Have I disciplined them? Do they hold the right values? Are they at the right school? Are their friends good influences? Do they have the right teacher? Do we have the finances to provide? And so the list goes on.

Without God, I would be in a constant state of panic.  I have to trust Him that he blessed me with these four children that he is at the steering wheel taking charge of their everyday and their future.  Whilst I do what I can, He is ultimately in control.  I seek my rest in Him.

God works best when we are at our weakest.  We are not, I am certainly not, a super woman.  I have seen God take many of my weaknesses and used His strength to achieve his will.  Over and over again He has also taken care of many impossible situations over the years.  All the while, I felt His peace.  A life with God does not mean that there will not be troubles ahead but when you walk closely with God, but it is amazing to see that you can face every situation with a strong sense of peace.

A well-known pastor in the UK, from Holy Trinity Brompton, Nicky Gumbel, shared something.  He said that he kept a pray journal.  Looking back at his prayer journals over the years, he has seen that God has answered all his prayers on God’s perfect timing.  Too many coincidences, you might say. or we can conclude that God exist and He does listen. I can also testify the same.

Matthew 19:26 says ‘With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.’

When I first started my walk with God, my mother, gave me Psalm 23 to say everyday.  Now every word rings true and it gives me comfort when facing life’s adversities.  I really recommended saying this every night with your children even.

Back in March, I felt totally overwhelmed and I let the huge waves of issues and challenges overcome me.  I was exhausted and broken.  I realised when it was already too late that I was trying to take charge of everything again, controlling everything in my life for fear of not doing enough and I felt I burnt out.  Then over the Easter holidays, I took some time to reflect on what I had done, and spent time with God and my children.

During the last few weeks, I felt God minister to me that I put myself, yet again, in the driver’s seat, trying to steer myself through the rough seas of motherhood and everything else.  I have taken my foot off the accelerator and I am now waiting on Him.

He told me and he sent a message via family and friends around me that my children are my ministry.  That’s the only job He has asked me to do.  Then, if that is the case,  then I must obey.

I realised that Jesus has ordered our steps.  First comes God, then our husbands and then our children.  I certainly find more peace when I stay true to these priorities. God has always said that He would never leave us nor forsake us.

I am blessed to have found a church that has helped my children develop their love and passion for God.  As a family we pray together and trust God to keep us close and to always have His hand upon us.

Don’t let fear ruin your precious moments with your children.  Let God take care of it all.

I would be the first to say that I am not the perfect Christian or the perfect mother.  I have faced many challenges but I am also on a journey of faith and hope that God will change me slowly everyday with his refining fire.

Motherhood| Donna Benton, Founder of The Entertainer talks to us about her new salon venture named after her daughter Chloe.

Donna Benton is the Founder and Chairman of the Entertainer.  She has lived in Dubai for 16 years and considers it home.  She is mum of two, Chloe, aged 6 and Jack, aged 3. Donna has an amazing reputation in Dubai as a businesswoman and philantropist, often described by many as down-to-earth, relatable, and she never stops giving back to communities.  Her team sing her praises as she exercises a leadership role that incorporates support, development, understanding and compassion, and her team are inspired and loyal to her as a result.  We are so grateful that Donna has taken time to talk to us about motherhood, business, and her new venture named after her first born, Chloe’s Beauty Hair and Nails.

Congratulations on the success of the Entertainer expanding internationally – what do you think are your key ingredients for its success?

Thank you.  It’s hard to believe that the Entertainer is now in 15 countries globally and that since launching the App in 2013 we’re now almost 100% digital.  I think a large part of the success is due to the fact that we’ve always stuck to the same business model – our offers are always buy one get one free and they’re valid 7 days a week (excluding public holidays). For this reason, it’s not always been easy to convince merchants to participate. But from the start I knew it was important to keep the offers consistent and ensure that they had as few restrictions as possible. So that when people buy the Entertainer they know what to expect and they also know that they’re going to get good quality offers and substantial savings.  These days, the App brings the offers to people with even more added bonuses and convenience.  We’re continually making improvements and launching new functions, sometimes even in direct response to customer requests. For example, last month we launched a delivery category, which lists all of the restaurants in Dubai offering buy one get one free on home delivery – something our customers had been asking for.

What made you decide to create Chloe’s Beauty, Hair & Nails?

Through the years I’ve enjoyed working with the spas and salons in the Entertainer Body and it’s an area I’ve always been interested in. Having been in Dubai for 16 years I’ve had my fair share of beauty treatments, but since having children the visits had started to become less frequent.  I realised that it was because salons tend to open quite late in the morning – in fact they open about 2 to 3 hours after school drop-off.  Plus when you’re working full-time it can be hard to find the time – even without children. I famously installed a salon in the Entertainer office a few years ago so that my employees can have treatments during the work day.  So I decided to launch my own salon to address these inconveniences – and of course it’s called Chloe’s after my daughter.

What is the concept of Chloe’s Beauty, Hair and Nails?

I wanted to create a convenient and affordable beauty haven that works for all the different groups of women in Dubai. We’re open from 7am – 9pm on weekdays (9am – 9pm on weekends) so you can book an appointment at a time that suits you perfectly – before work, after school drop-off, during your lunch break and even after the kids have gone to bed. We also have a kid’s treatment area so, even more conveniently, you can bring your kids with you and relax knowing that they’re being looked after. We have a private VIP room, which allows groups of up to 4 guests to enjoy their treatments together and is perfect for wedding party preparations, a girls’ get together, hen night or birthday celebrations.  It also allows for people who just want a bit more privacy. Finally the prices are very reasonable – I want people to feel like they can afford to have regular treatments and leave feeling pampered and relaxed rather than worrying about what they just spent.

How quickly can a mum on the run do her manicure and pedicure plus have a blowdry? (on average)?

Depending on the length of your hair, we can have you pampered and preened in about 45 mins to an hour.  If you’re pressed for time it’s best to let the girls know and they will make sure you’re finished in time.

The team are trained to be extremely timely and efficient. Plus if you’re really stretched for time, we offer express services – for example you can have an Express Manicure for just 30dhs and in less than 20 minutes you will have clean and tidy nails as well as a polish change.  It’s actually the perfect place to have a one-to-one meeting, which I do with my team on a regular basis.

How much time do you have for yourself as a working mother?  How do you ensure you carve that out for yourself?

I’m a firm believer that a happy family needs a happy mum.  It’s really so important to take time out for yourself.  For me, I prioritise exercising as that makes me feel great.  I tend to start each morning with a run on the beach – I’m often joined by one of my girlfriends and I find it the best way to clear my head and get ready for the day.  I’m also fortunate enough to have a great support team around me and the children. I’d never underestimate the importance of a great nanny!

How do you balance your time with the family and work?

I’m very organised and I do plan ahead, but balance doesn’t necessarily mean sticking to a rigid schedule – it’s actually more important to be flexible. So some days I might take the afternoon off to do something with the kids and then catch up on work in the evening after they’re in bed. Also I don’t feel guilty about being a working mum. I think it’s a great life lesson for my kids to see how hard I work and that they enjoy the life they do because of what I do. My parents instilled a fantastic work ethic in me and I hope that I pass that onto my children.

You are a role model to many other mums and women out there, who is your personal role model?

Motherhood is one of the hardest, yet most rewarding, jobs in the world.  There’s no formula to being a perfect mother, everyone has their own style and can be brilliant at it.  So anyone with happy, thriving children should be an inspiration to others.  My mum is a great role model for me. She provided me and my sister with unwavering love and affection and always taught us to treat people how we would like to be treated ourselves.  She’s been a constant support in my life and I hope that I have the same close relationship with my children that I have with my mum.

What three pieces of advice can you give to mums with young children wanting to start up a business of their own?

You’re going to have to be brave! If you have a good idea for a business, but you’re always putting off taking that leap into the unknown, don’t be afraid to take some risks and put your fears to one side.

Starting your own business definitely isn’t easy and don’t underestimate the work ethic and belief in the product that you need.

Remember, you can love what you do, but if the figures don’t add up, it’s a hobby and not a business.

What is the best advice you have been given?

My grandmother played a big part in my childhood and I always remember her saying “always save your money for a rainy day” and thank goodness I listened to her.  If I hadn’t, I wouldn’t have had the $3,000 in my savings account that I used to start the Entertainer when the job that I’d moved to Dubai for didn’t work out!

What do you hope to instill in Chloe and Jack when they grow up?

Impeccable manners, compassion and a strong work ethic.

What is your greatest fear as a mother for your children?

The most important thing is good health, that’s really all you need in life.

It is well-known that you are incredibly compassionate when it comes to helping others around you as well as under-privileged children, what is your philosophy behind this?

We didn’t have a lot of money when I was growing up and now I’m fortunate to live a very comfortable lifestyle.  I can afford to help others and therefore I do, it’s that simple. We have a villa in Thailand and I support a local school there as well as an orphanage.  We visit them each time we’re in Phuket to give the children new toys and donations we’ve collected. We’ve just installed a new playground in the school and it’s great to see the kids having so much fun.

Your favourite holiday destination?

Phuket – it’s our ultimate holiday destination and having a villa of our own means that it’s pretty much an open house, so we always have friends and family come and join us for part of our holiday.  Being amongst my friends and family is the best relaxation for me.

Favourite online website for shopping?

I don’t tend to shop online, does that sound very old fashioned?  The options here in Dubai are fairly limited. In fact, I don’t tend to shop much at all.  I probably do one big shopping spree a year and it’s usually when I’m home in Australia or in the States.

Happiness is….

Smiling children.

Chloe’s Beauty, Hair and Nails is located on Jumeirah Beach Road, Shop 5, next to BurgerFuel, Opposite Saga World. 

Tel: 04 388 4884

www.chloesuae.com