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Travel Ideas | Kids travelling in style with Beatrix NY

How to carry children’s stuff

Most mothers are getting jittery about what to pack, what to carry, and how to entertain kids on long travels.  We love Beatrix NY because their bags are light weight, and foldable, and my children don’t mind having it on their backs.  Beatrix NY is also a favourite with celebrity families such as Victoria and David Beckham’s daughter Harper and Katie Holmes’, Suri Cruise. We are heading out to the Far East so we need to ensure that the kids have water bottles in hand for the heat, and they can carry their own, plus one or two toys on board to amuse them at the airport.  Also, when you are walking around the resorts/cities that we will also feature this summer, the bags come in handy for the children to stuff their choice of toys to term them to keep them entertained on car journeys and at restaurants.  Then, come September these items are useful as part of your ‘Back to School’ kit especially the brilliant cozy can water bottles that look like cans which my children love the novelty of.

If you are in the mad rush you can purchase them online www.babysouk.com or instore at Hamleys UAE Dubai Mall and Mirfiff City Centre and all Dbabies Stores and Bumble Bee Dubai Mall.

What to stuff inside these bags

We have have started purchasing reading books for my soon-to-be FS2 daughter as she is keen just to blend a few words like ‘cat, sat and mat’, and Papa has the duty to do some Italian flashcards with the children.  Usborne is a pretty recognised brand that produces affordable books and educational games to bring along on holiday, and these items can be purchased as Book World in Dubai Mall, Bookworm Stores, and Borders.

NetMums | Hannah Barton, US/UK Mum tells us some of her favourite websites from around the world.

Hannah Barton is a mother I do admire, full of resources and ideas for her children – I love her enthusiasm and her ability to ‘get dirty’ with the children and to communicate with them at their level.   She is an American friend who has lived in the UK for over 15 years with her husband, Foster, and their two gorgeous children, Malory and Callum.  She is one of my go-to mums, giving great advice, and I have finally persuaded her to share some of her great advice with SOTP readers.  Hannah is the first mum contributing to our new section called ‘NetMums’, which will allow us to share some online resources that we have discovered between us mums whether for pleasure or for practical survival.

As a mother of two who is typically working full time, but is currently enjoying some time at home with the children between jobs, I rely heavily on websites that help simplify family life, scratch an intellectual itch, and make me feel like a better/more organised/more thoughtful mother, wife and friend. I don’t have as much time as I would like to focus on researching to the nth degree every food or product that comes into our household, so I tend to follow websites and blogs of experts whose opinions I rate and trust. Sometimes it’s necessary to use their sound advice as a shortcut to making informed decisions.

 

WEBSITES FOR SORTING DAILY LIFE

Ocado

www.ocado.com

I will start with one that is the most obvious, as I find it is the biggest game changer for modern motherhood. Ocado (online grocer) stocks all of the products we use, has the widest range of organic and specialty food that I’ve come across in the UK, and has a super easy app so that I can sort the grocery order whilst on the train or in a taxi. I’m a stickler for organic, grass-fed, and earth friendly products, so this is a dream for me. It has all of the “health food” items and fancy ingredients for dinner parties that I can’t always find in the supermarket. It also includes the nutritional content and ingredients for every item, so I know exactly what I’m getting.

Amazon UK

www.amazon.co.uk

This one is also completely obvious, but again, a game changer. For years I resisted joining Amazon Prime, holding fast to my “look what it’s doing to independent shops” speech, but I finally gave in after a mum from school talked me into it, and I’ve never looked back. For starters, Amazon Prime can ship most things in 24 hours. Let’s not kid ourselves – there will always be a Friday morning when I get up and realise both kids have a birthday party at the weekend and I don’t yet have a gift, the gift drawer is empty, my day is swamped, no way I’ll make it to the shops, etc. etc. GATZ! Amazon can sort it. Can’t beat that. I have to ship gifts to America, Switzerland, Dubai and Hong Kong regularly, so it’s a lifesaver.

BBC News 

www.bbc.co.uk/news/

When working full time, I never have to think about my news source. I typically sit on a trading floor with multiple computer screens in front of me and tv screens along the walls, all barking the news at me all day long. During commutes to and from work, I can read my news source of choice. I used to find it relentless, but now that I am at home, I miss it. Because it used to be all around me, I wasn’t accustomed to making proper time for catching up on current events. I realised that I need the solution to be easy and subtle (one morning of the news on tv covering atrocities sent the children crying into the next room), so reading it on a phone or an iPad suits me best. I like the BBC, the Economist, the Huffington Post, and my local hometown newspaper sites. Push notifications are helpful for quick updates, as is following them on Twitter, but it can be overwhelming how many you receive, so I edit it down to what I want to see.

Not on the High Street

www.notonthehighstreet.com

This website has handpicked the best small businesses that provide creative and well-made gifts and homewares. This is my go-to for thoughtful gifts, as most products can be personalised. You can communicate directly with the sellers for special requests and they can typically ship anywhere in the world. I also appreciate a gift when people can’t immediately guess where you’ve bought it. Nothing is worse than the “Oh, you got me those votives from the 4th floor of Peter Jones” look.

 

WEBSITES FOR PARENTING

Children’s School Website

It is nice feeling like you are up to date with what is happening at school and to feel like a part of the school community, which can be especially difficult for working parents and those that can’t regularly participate in the school run. I am incredibly grateful that our school has a terrific website, through which they post regular, meaningful updates that are actually useful for parents. It’s a terrific resource.

NHS

www.nhs.uk

Every parent will have a moment in their lives with some sort of health scare, so I find the NHS website invaluable. In the middle of the night, when your child cries and you have that “dear God, is it teething or meningitis?” moment, you can quickly do a search through sleepy haziness and worry. The NHS website tends to actually be both useful and a trustworthy resource. Even if I didn’t live in the UK, I would still definitely carry on using this site. You can search by symptom and also by condition, which is quite useful for not only deciphering what the child might have, but also ruling out what they don’t have.

 

WEBSITES FOR INTEREST

Get the Gloss

www.getthegloss.com

Now is when I get to start indulging on things I actually find fun. Get the Gloss runs the full gamut of news on beauty, nutrition, exercise, work-life balance and what’s new topics, all of which I find helpful because it feels they are specifically targeted to my demographic. It has a terrific list of contributors, many of whom I follow individually, as they give advice I rate and are top specialists in their fields (beauty editors, nutritionists, trainers, psychologists). As I said before, I don’t have time to research everything as much as I would like, so this website perfectly whittles down all of the information for me to give me advice that I both enjoy and trust. I go to it when I’m looking for everything from what new skincare product to buy, to latest diet and exercise advice, to tips on banishing anxiety and managing stressful city life. It’s a great all-rounder. They send daily emails and I click on at least a few of the articles every day.

Refinery29

www.refinery29.com

Originally focusing only on New York, it has since jumped over the pond to give Londoners the latest on fashion, beauty, wellness and entertainment news. It typically presents its articles in a list, for example:  top restaurants for brunch, top high street knock-offs of runway fashion, top cocktail bars with a view, top restaurants for al-fresco dining, etc. I use it for new ideas of where to eat, drink and shop. As we have a lot of tourists who come to stay, it’s fun to stay on top of all of the new things happening in London. It helps me feel young and in-touch, two things I struggle with now that I’m not out on the town every night anymore.

GOOP

www.goop.com

Think what you will of GP, this mother faces of the same challenges and concerns as any other mother would (albeit, on a different budget), but she happens to be surrounded by world’s top specialists in many areas that are important to me. For me, the most helpful articles from the site tend to be nutrition, exercise or children focused. For example: nutritious breakfast recipes for the whole family, deciphering the world of supplements, exercises you can do in your hotel room, pesticides in the foods that kids regularly eat, and great calming apps for children. She has the best people in the world looking after her family and personal health, so why not mooch off the intel?

 

WEBSITES FOR EXERCISE 

The Body Coach

www.thebodycoach.co.uk

Joe Wicks is a genius. I found him on Get the Gloss and he has done some work with the nutrition ladies at Honestly Healthy. He has been featured recently in nearly every top UK publication and his first cookbook comes out next year. His 15-20 minute training sessions on YouTube helped me reach my goals faster than any other exercise regime I’ve ever done. It’s super quick and can be done at home with minimal equipment, so I can fit it into my day easily. Follow him Instagram to watch the transformations of his clients and to see his recipes. Let your new addiction begin! PS – he’s nice on the eyes too.

 

WEBSITES FOR SHOPPING

My kids don’t wear uniforms at their school, which has its pros and cons. I tend to save their nice clothes for the weekends, as their weekday clothes get destroyed rather quickly. No sense in big investments here. H&M is brilliant, as it’s cheap, cute, relatively well made and convenient. We buy lots of our basics here. Crew Cuts (J Crew’s line for children) is terrific. It’s sweet, but not overly preppy, and the graphics are tasteful. I also love Ralph Lauren for its cotton jumpers. They are practically indestructible. You can pretty much boil them and they will retain their shape and colour, always looking smart.

For me: I tend to do most of my online fashion shopping on J Crew and Tory Burch, then Donna Ida for denim.

J CREW

www.jcrew.com

As an American, I’ve been shopping at J Crew since my teens. It has come such a long way since then. Their website is brilliant and the emails are full of terrific styling ideas. I am almost a bit sad that they have gone global. It was a glorious little secret while it lasted.

Tory Burch

www.toryburch.com

I love Tory Burch for a number of reasons: the brand makes lovely pieces for both work and weekends, people in London don’t recognise it yet, it gets me out of the LK Bennett/Reiss uniform rut that women in the workplace are stuck in here, and because everything they make fits me well without needing alterations, which is rare for me. I don’t have to rush to a shop to try it on first.

Donna Ida

www.donnaida.com

Several of my favourite stateside websites for buying denim have recently closed, so I’ve had to find something reliable in the UK. This shop carries nearly all of the top brands, but in a way that isn’t terribly overwhelming. The Denim Clinic buying guide on the website is really helpful when trying to find the most flattering fit for your shape, but it’s really the Compare List facility on the website that makes denim buying so much easier. Just tick your favourites and then see all of their measurements, fit and review stats one page to help you make a decision. It saves trying on 33 pairs to finally find the perfect one.

Exclusive interview | Matt Vlemmiks, Director and Travel Designer at Lightfoot Travel Dubai , gives us an insight on be-spoke traveling and great places to visit with the family

Matt Vlemmiks is the Director of Lightfoot Travel in Dubai and father of Lucia, 5 years old. Matt has developed a passion for travelling after graduating from university and hasn’t stopped exploring the world since then. He now has the company of his beautiful family – wife, Fiona and daughter Lucia – during his adventures.  

Having landed in Dubai nearly two years ago to set up a office for Lightfoot Travel, Matt Vlemmiks has taken some time to share with us his traveling expertise and what to expect from a personalised holiday.

Lightfoot Travel is a luxury tour operator specialised in designer holidays to countries spanning six continents around the world. They offer a highly personalised services not found with local travel agents or when booking online.

Please tell me about your family, and about your move to Dubai. Where were you previously located?

I was previously based in the south of England, in the Cotswold, working for another luxury tailor-made travel company that are based in that region. Lightfoot gave me the opportunity to relocate to Dubai and set-up their new office here, which appealed to me as a great challenge and definitely something a bit different from Oxfordshire! So I relocated in November 2013, along with my wife and my daughter Lucia (who was then only three). With the odd bump in the road here and there, we have all enjoyed living in Dubai for these last 18 months.

Can you tell us about Lightfoot Travel?

Lightfoot Travel is a luxury tailor-made tour operator with bases in three countries, Singapore, Hong Kong and Dubai. We offer entirely bespoke itineraries for each of our clients to destinations across the globe and our trips encompass a massive range of experiences, from a simple Eid beach break to a three-week self-drive itinerary in Namibia or an Antarctic cruise.

What are some of the benefits or value added advantages for families travelling with Lightfoot travel?

There is a range of benefits. Firstly, cost-wise our contracts should usually be more than competitive with what can be found direct or online, both with our preferred accommodations and in terms of the activities and experiences we offer. Secondly, each of our Travel Designers specialise in a limited number of destinations that are of specific importance to them and where they can offer highly personalised, first-hand advice. They travel regularly to each of their designated areas to keep their knowledge as up-to-the-minute as possible, and we also seek to obtain extensive feedback from all of our clients after a holiday, so that we almost have our own (far more objective) “Trip Advisor” to draw upon when advising clients. Thirdly, service is a massive priority for Lightfoot. We don’t send enormous volumes of people away on trips but instead focus on providing high levels of attention and personalised service for each and every one of our clients, right throughout the planning process and their trip itself until they return. In this way, we hope to encourage our clients to travel with us again and to recommend us to their friends, family and colleagues.

There are more and more luxury travel operators coming to the market but we, as your potential clients, are still confused about luxury operators differ to normal ones. The biggest fear is that you will cost the customer more. Can you explain how does a company like Lightfoot Travel essentially make its money?

We certainly shouldn’t cost more than you are able to find elsewhere, and we are actually very honest in advising potential clients to snap up a price from elsewhere if for some reason it is something that we are unable to match. With all of our contracted partners, from hotels to safari lodges, cruise operators and activity providers, we receive discounted net rates from the partner. This enables us to add a markup to these costs in order for us to remain sustainable and profitable as a business while still offering a fair price for our clients. In today’s world, some hotels might on occasion offer an exclusive online sale rate for direct bookings, or through an online booking portal that we don’t have access to, so we can’t promise this in 100% of cases, but in my experience we are more than competitive at least 90% of the time. And even then, clients will not receive the same levels of service by booking through these other channels, and if we discover that we are not receiving the best possible rates from a close partner, they will often open these to us on an ad hoc basis if it will help us to confirm a booking.

What areas in the world would you say were Lightfoot Travel’s expertise?

We genuinely specialise in virtually all corners of the globe. Asia is obviously a massive area of strength, given that we have two Asian-bases that have been operating for longer than our Dubai office. The staff here are virtually all of an Asian background and have travelled extensively in the region from an early age. For myself, I have specialised in African safaris and the Middle East for nearly 10 years, while we have recently taken on a top Designer for Latin America and Polar Cruises. And then, for all of our staff that aren’t from an Asian background, we will tend to be European and have great experience travelling in Europe and organising holidays there. So outside of some highly obscure destinations that you wouldn’t necessarily want to visit, and perhaps some of the more mass-market destinations where we can’t offer any value based on our own experiences and contracts, I honestly think we can organise our clients a memorable holiday to just about anywhere.

You have a five year old girl, can you suggest 3 top holiday choices for your family, perhaps places you have been and places you would like to go.

A) We have just returned from Vietnam, spending time in Ho Chi Minh City and Hoi An with some friends and their 3 year old son. This was a fantastic trip that was enjoyed across the age spectrum! There are direct flights with Emirates; the culture and history is fascinating; there are beautiful hotels, from the boutique to the more child friendly; the food is fantastic, and it’s incredibly good value! It can also be very easily combined with the Temples of Angkor in Cambodia, for older children with an Indiana Jones / Lara Croft adventurous streak.

B) South Africa is perfect for families, especially as children become old enough to appreciate all that it has to offer (I will be taking Lucia for her first African adventure next year). Safaris can be enjoyed in malaria-free national parks where you are guaranteed to see amazing Big Game, and there are an increasing number of safari lodges or private safari houses that specialise in providing specifically tailored activities and workshops for children. There are penguins and whale watching on the south coast, incredible scenery and Cape Town is one of the world’s most exciting and scenic cities. There are direct flights from the UAE to Cape Town, Johannesburg and Durban, and like Vietnam, it’s also exceptionally good value.

C) For those looking for a more sedate holiday experience with specifically tailored facilities, Kids’ Clubs and entertainments, I’m told the Seychelles is perfect. I will be visiting this summer so will be able to report back in more detail after my trip.

What has been the most memorable holiday for your daughter?

My daughter loves going back to the UK! But she’s also had great times in Italy – Florence and Rome specifically, where the people love children, the sights are interesting for even the youngest visitors, and pizza and pasta are always on the menu.

For families with multiple children, like myself, where would you suggest I go this summer with my children who are 6 years, 4 years, 2 years and 9 months?

The familiar favourites of the Maldives, Seychelles and Thailand tend to cater well for such a range of ages, most especially with regards to your 9-month old. There are direct flights to each of them, and a range of accommodation styles that offer everything from Villas within a hotel to Kids’ Clubs and pools. Sri Lanka is fantastic for taking private villas, which again provides a level of privacy and intimate service that you might require for younger children. And if you want to cut down on flying, there are some amazing hotels in Oman and the UAE, as I’m sure you know from first-hand experience!

Lightfoot Travel has great relationships with hotel groups, and as a family of 6 plus a nanny, we would only want to take two rooms when staying in a hotel. Would you be able to arrange this with most hotel groups?

Yes, virtually all hotel groups can accommodate this. City hotels now often offer “interconnecting” rooms which are actually two rooms with a front door that can be closed off to separate them – something that has been pioneered to a large extent in this region! At more beach-style accommodations, 1 or 2 Bedroom Suites and Villas are usually on offer, and even for some hotels where they might seem to have strict restrictions on occupancy if you are making an online booking, for those that we have close working relationships we might be able to arrange them to accommodate special requests outside of their usual occupancy rules on an ad hoc basis.

When travelling with multiple children, Dubai families like the option of bringing their nanny along – can Lightfoot suggests destinations where visas are not an issue, and for some more challenging destinations are you able to advise how to go about organising visas?

Seychelles is visa free and the Maldives is also extremely visa-friendly for all nationalities. For most other countries it really depends on what nationality the nanny is, although countries like Sri Lanka and Thailand are also usually reasonably easy. Europe can be less easy, although a Schengen visa can be obtained for visiting numerous different European countries in one go. For Africa and the Americas it really varies from one country to the next. Lightfoot Travel are not able to obtain visas for our clients but of course we can help out with advice.

If I wanted Lightfoot Travel’s help to book my next holiday destination, would I email, telephone or book online?

Since our itineraries are completely tailor-made then it is not yet possible to book a trip online. And I think that even if we could offer this service, it would detract somewhat from what we can offer in terms of interaction and recommendations with your Travel Designer. We can certainly be contacted with an initial request online though at www.lightfoottravel.com, or you can call the Dubai office on 04 455 8788.

If you had to take your wife away for a romantic long weekend without your little girl, where would you go?

Last year we did two nights in Paris over Bastille Day at the Royal Monceau, which became possibly my favourite city hotel. While in the region, I think I’m just about the only person in the UAE who hasn’t yet been to the Maldives, as so many of our other staff know it extremely well and there is no real business requirement for me to go! So this is definitely top of the list – I must get Lucia’s grandparents over for childcare duties…

For more information on Lightfoot Travel, please visit:

www.lightfoottravel.com

or contact their Dubai office at:

04 455 8788